posted by on June 30, 2009
greenthing22 asked:


my friend has three dresses i could borrow, two are black with pink underlining, i think she wore one of them to her gr 9 grad, and her other one is a nice brown and white (i think) summer dress, but i dont know if it’s too casual?
its a summer wedding, at 2pm, so i should dress summer-y?
p.s. im 16, am i allowed to go to the second part of the evening? (cocktails and dinner)

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5 Comments to “it’s my first time at a wedding, i dont have a dress or proper shoes, what should i buy/borrow?”

  1. Wine Is Fine 1717 Says:

    I would wear the black dress w/ strappy heals. I would buy this though. You are 16 and should start getting use to having clothing for formal events.

    Buy yourself a nice black cocktail dress and some matching shoes. That way, the next time something comes up, you won’t have to worry about what you are wearing.

  2. Leah Says:

    Either of the black dresses would be fine with black strappy shoes. Payless is great to get shoes at for cheap.

    As for the second part of evening (reception), if the inside envelope of the invitation had your name on it, then you are invited to the reception.

  3. Elaine L Says:

    Get yourself a nice black dress with a nice pair of heels. You will always get use of a black dress and heels.

    Sears actually has a few gowns for $20 if you like to dress up:+%26+Bridesmaid+Dresses&BV_UseBVCookie=Yes

    Macy’s has some nice deals too for dress that are knee lenght:*-1*-1&kw=Party&LinkType=EverGreen

  4. Proud to be 51 Says:

    The wedding is an afternoon wedding, so the summer dress would be fine. You would wear a black dress for an evening wedding as they are more formal. Otherwise, black isn’t recommended for weddings, and never wear white, that is reserved for the bride! Get yourself some nice strappy heals and you’re set.

    I have never seen someone invited to a wedding and not the reception (cocktails and dinner), too. I’m sure you are, but check the invitation and make sure your name was listed.

    Have fun!

  5. cardgirl2 Says:

    yes a summer dress knee length is very good for an afternoon wedding. If you feel the dresses are too casual, go shopping and see if you can get a dress. There are big sales now. Because of your age I would recommend forever21.com, and hm.com (which is H&M clothing store) and nordstroms.com, chadwicksofboston.com. and dillards.com. Yes you can go to the 2nd part of the evening, but you will not drink alcohol. I am sure they have non-alcoholic drinks there too.

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